Bisnes dari rumah tanpa modal?

Alhamdulillah. Pejam celik pejam celik, dah 9 bulan saya berbisnes. Pada mulanya secara part-time, kecil-kecilan sehingga secara full-time dan lebih serius. Kalau ada yang bertanya berapa modal saya mulakan bisnes ini? Jawapannya TIADA. Kosong modal. Saya hanya mendaftar sebagai ahli dan bayar yuran sekali seumur hidup dan teruskan mulakan bisnes saya bermula kosong sampai sekarang, cuba menstabilkan bonus 4 angka. RAHSIANYA? Satu sahaja, JANGAN BERHENTI.

Saya sangat suka dengan bisnes saya sekarang, sebab semuanya dilakukan di rumah, ketika anak di depan mata, sambil mengurus rumah tangga dan menyambut kepulangan suami dari tempat kerja. Saya yakin lebih ramai wanita yang inginkan bisnes begini. Maka izinkan saya khabarkan peluang berbisnes dengan Shaklee. Keistimewaan menjadi ahli:

1. Tidak perlu beli dan buat stok banyak-banyak
2. Tidak perlu ke pejabat post untuk post barang
3. Yuran pendaftaran yang sangat murah (RM65)
4. Dapat beli produk dengan harga ahli, potongan harga sehingga 30%
5. Dapat bonus jualan setiap 14hb

Ingin ketahui lebih lanjut cara mendaftar jadi ahli? Feel free to contact me:

Puan Zahra | 0139944328

Cloth Diapers Murah dan Cantik

Bismillah..

So, I have posted before on how to cut down some of your monthly budget. One of it is to change disposable diaper to reusable diaper (Cloth diapers). I am offering you an affordable and sweet cloth diapers here. So check it out ;)

Purchase and Payment Method:

1. SMS 0139944328 to ask the availability of any product.

2. Pay to account:

Maybank account: 112790049680

Name: Siti Fatimah Az-Zahrah

CIMB account: 02110038990521

Name: Siti Fatimah Az-Zahrah

3. SMS bank in time and reference number, your name, delivery address and number phone

 

4. Once your payment have been confirmed your order will be processed

5. Postage will takes 3-5 working days to reach at your doorstep.

 

 

 

INFO PRODUK:

 

【Brand】QQ Baby

【Level】First-class products

【Sizes】Folding  (adjustable S, M, L 3 sizes) 

【Suitable】3-13kg

【Package】QQ Baby Printed Pocket Diaper + 2 Inserts

 

Features: 

 

1.Unique design of 3x3 button snap, easy to adjust different size for any age of baby weight 3kg to 13kg

2.Easy to adjust waist and leg

3.Super absorbent 3 layer inserts and inner fleece

4.Soft inner fleece to make baby feel good

5.Waterproof of outer PUL to prevent leakage

6.Made of 100% Polyster

7.This product is a washable, adjustable, economic use of the baby green diapers Diaper  

 

RM99

RM99

 

Fun Learning Package

Bismillah..

 Here are some of Fun Learning Package from Mrs.Mama Zone. These package are really suitable to teach your children in a fun way, inshaallah. Grab it for your kids now ;)

Purchase and Payment Method:

1. SMS 0139944328 to ask the availability of any product.

2. Pay to account:

Maybank account: 112790049680

Name: Siti Fatimah Az-Zahrah

CIMB account: 02110038990521

Name: Siti Fatimah Az-Zahrah

3. SMS bank in time and reference number, your name, delivery address and number phone

 4. Once your payment have been confirmed your order will be processed

 5. Postage will takes 3-5 working days to reach at your doorstep.

 

Alif ba Ta package consist of:
♥ Softbook from alif to ya
♥ Iqra' flashcard
♥ Alif to ya wooden puzzle

 Rm75 including postage

Learn whudu' and solat package consist of:
♥ Softbook whudu' sebelum solat
♥ Belajar solat Upin dan Ipin's book
♥ Whudu' step by step wooden puzzle

 

Rm75 including postage

Learn Doa and hadith package consist of:
♥ VCD belejar hadith
♥ Doa2 harian flashcard
♥Sehari Dalam Hidupku

 

RM45 including postage.

 

 

Check 'em out and get 'em for your children! Happy learning ^_^

 

Islamic Cloth/Softbook ^_^

Bismillah..

 

Here are some of Islamic softbook collection from Mrs.Mama Zone. This cloth/softbook is really suitable to introduce and stimulate your children to love reading books from the very early years inshaallah. It can be washed, can be use as a pillow and your baby can bite it as well, lol. It's fun, it's safe and it's affordable! Grab it for your kids now ;)

 

Purchase and Payment Method:

1. SMS 0139944328 to ask the availability of any product.

 

2. Pay to account:

Maybank account: 112790049680

Name: Siti Fatimah Az-Zahrah

CIMB account: 02110038990521

Name: Siti Fatimah Az-Zahrah

 

3. SMS bank in time and reference number, your name, delivery address and number phone

 

4. Once your payment have been confirmed your order will be processed

 

5. Postage will takes 3-5 working days to reach at your doorstep.

 

 

 

RM35

RM35

My baby with her very first book, softbook. Grab for your baby too at Mrs.Mama Zone with a great deal, they will definitely have fun and learn with it, inshaallah ♥ ^__^ ♥

Thank you, may Allah bless you and your family ^_^



Declaration

Bismillah..

 

Saya bernama Siti Fatimah Az-Zahrah bt Asmara (Puan Zahra) Adalah pengedar sah shaklee bernombor ID  928161 Di area Petaling Jaya Selangor, penghantaran adalah ke seluruh Malaysia.

Boleh hubungi saya (PM facebook AzZahra Evergreen @ AzZahra Kunoichi/Whatsapp/SMS 01399443238) untuk bertanya lebih lanjut tentang produk-produk Shaklee.

> Produk Shaklee diakui produk yang BERKESAN, SELAMAT, dan MESRA ALAM.
Telah berada lebih 50 tahun di pasaran.

>Diperkukuh dengan clinical dan landmark studies.

>Shaklee telah melaburkan lebih daripada USD250 juta dalam pembangunan produk yang lengkap, penyelidikan dan percubaan-percubaan klinikal

>Setiap tahun lebih kurang 83,000 ujian makmal dan kualiti dijalankan ke atas produk nutrisi dan bahan-bahannya sahaja

>Natural Supplement #1 di Amerika Syarikat.

>Paling penting, disahkan HALAL



Saya sendiri dah amalkan SHAKLEE, Alhamdulillah berkesan dengan izin Allah. Jom layan pengalaman saya di sini.http://ababilzahra.blogspot.com/2013/02/bersamamu-aku-bahagia.html

Jom sihat luar dan dalam :)

2 in 1

Bismillah..

Wah tajuk skema tak hengat, hehe. So, semenjak menceburkan diri dalam bidang rumahtangga ini, banyak perkara yang I belajar, bila banyak belajar, otak pun banyak berfikir (Apa kaitan dengan tajuk? -____-). Actually tak tahu nak cakap tulis macam mana pengalaman setahun sebulan jagung menempuh alam rumahtangga, but it rocks, REALLY. Belajar memikul tanggungjawab dengan benar sebagai seorang isteri dan ibu, memikirkan mereka dahulu sebelum diri sendiri dan mengurus rumah takde tangga make me become more matured (for real?!). Then,dah mula pandai buat budget untuk keperluan rumah and di sini lah timbulnya idea yang berbunyi seperti tajuk di atas, ngeh3(finally masuk point juga, phew susah juga nak buat intro ni!). Soalan ni actually sangatlah normal dan tidak asing bagi pasangan yang dah bernikah kerana ekonomi rumahtangga (Tetibe teringat subjek Kem.Hidup -__-) penting dalam menjamin kemandirian spesis di dalam rumah. Di antara idea-idea yang berlambak di pasaran, I like this idea the most: We change disposable thing to reusable thing. Selain jimat, ia juga sangat mesra alam, nak bagi lagi nampak mesra alam I highlight color hijau gitu, go go green!. Ok, so what is the thing? Jeng3....

Disposable diapers (RM30 per pack contain 60 diapers) change to Cloth diapers (RM35 each)

Disposable menstrual Pad (RM5 contain 10 pads) change to cloth pad (RM15 each)

WHat?! Are you serious? It's not gonna reduce the cost, it will increase the cost man! Well, NO not in a long term. Katakanlah harga sebungkus disposable diapers yang korang beli tiap bulan tu adalah RM30, let say you are using 5 diapers a day, you will need to buy at least 3 packs of disposable diapers (Contain 60 diapers in each pack). So, you will spend about RM90 per month right? Let's do some maths here:

 RM90/month X 12months=RM1080

For 3 years you will spend RM3240 for disposable diapers

ok, now if you go for cloth diaper and assuming you purchase 10 cloth diaper in 1st year and each one is about RM35.

RM35 X 10= RM350 (You are saving RM 730!)

Ahaaaa and if you let say buy another 10 cloth diapers with price RM25, 

RM25 X 10= RM250

So, RM250+RM350= RM600 (You are still saving RM480!)

Then the next year you buy another 5 cloth diapers with price RM35 = RM175

 For 3 years you are spending  about RM775 for cloth diapers

Disposable diapers RM3240

Cloth diapers RM775

You are saving about RM2465!

and YES this cloth diaper can be use in a long term until your child no longer need the diapers(Dah pandai pergi toilet unt poo and pee) dan boleh diwariskan kepada adik-adik yang seterusnya,hohoho. RM2465 is a small amount? Terfikir tak apa anda boleh buat dengan duit ini? Meh nak bagi cadangan. Assume you do investment  in Amanah Saham or Unit Trust and average you manage to get a long term investment return rate of 8%, when you children's 20th birthday, you prepared at about RM14, 000 as his/her birthday (Boleh buat bayar yuran universiti kottt). Should this money go to the disposable diaper company or your children ?

You are the one who make the decision :)

Now for cloth pad and disposable pad. As for disposable pad, you gonna need at least 3packs in a month. 

so, RM5 X 3= RM15

RM15 X 12months=RM180

Cloth pad, RM15 X 10 = RM150

Ok, seems not a big different there isn't it? But hey, cloth pad can be use even in the next year and it is environmental friendly :)

Why I mention that both are environmental friendly? Makhuk kecil cute and menggunakan lebih kurang 7000 lampin pakai buang dalam masa 3 tahun tapi cloth diaper just maybe 80 keping. Disposable diapers is used for 2 hours tapi cloth diapers is used for 3 years, boleh anda yang bijaksana sini bayangkan ke mana agaknya beribu raban pampers tu pergi? Tidakkah ia akan kembali kepada alam sekitar? Same case as disposable menstrual pad, you will use 1000 pads in 3 years, but only 50 cloth pads and where it gonna end up to? YES environment. Cotton is the Most Natural material for you and your baby¹s skin and oh with no CHEMICAL at all. There is no need for gels or chemicals. Jangan risau if bocor or what so ever, dengan kebijaksanaan kurniaan Allah kepada makhluk manusia, lampin kain dah adavance sekarang, ada macam-macam corak dan satu diapers both fit dengan banyak saiz sebab ada butang laras. Jangan korang bayang macam lampin kain dolu-dolu tu, kena letak pin bagai, NO. I have started using both, but still dalam proses mengembang biakkan supaya lebih banyak umat cloth diapers and cloth pad ni di planet rumah I, hohoho. I selang selikan, sehari cloth diaper next day is disposable diaper for the beginning. Actually, cloth diapers ni ada jual kat banyak pasaraya but I am not sure about the quality.

Cloth diapers

Inilah yang dinamakan 2 in 1,  berjimat dan mesra alam, heheh. Selain itu, untuk kurangkan belanja dapur pula, rancanglah resepi anda untuk 3 hari then baru pergi pasar beli apa yang patut. Jangan beli sakan semua then tak terpakai pun, busuk je dan terbuang, kan ke membazir duit dan makanan namanya? Dan siapa yang suka membazir kawan siapa??? Hohoho tepuk dada tanya iman :) 

Inshaallah jumpa lagi, terima kasih sudi baca ^^

Bersamamu Aku Bahagia

Bismillah..

Alhamdulillah masih diberi peluang untuk bernafas hari ini, dengan nikmat kesihatan dan keimanan. Apa lagi yang kita mahu? Jika iman didada, apa pun mendatang pasti bahagia, aiceh. Post kali ni mengenai pengalaman saya sendiri sebagai salah seorang di antara berjuta pengguna satu produk yang termasyur seantero dunia ini. Saya jatuh cinta pertama kali pada makanan tambahan atau supplement ketika menggunakan produk ini sendiri, detik perkenalan saya dengannya adalah melalui seorang pengedar sah lagi comel, kak Ani namanya, ngeh3. Selama 24 tahun saya hidup, sekali pun tak pernah terdetik untuk saya mula mengambil makanan tambahan sehinggalah sesuatu keajaiban telah berlaku dalam diri, jeng3, yes I am pregnant. Satu nyawa sedang berdenyut dalam rahim saya, menyedari diri yang kian hari terasa lemah akibat nutrien yang dikongsi bersama, sebagai hamba Allah yang disuruh berusaha saya mengambil keputusan untuk mencuba makanan tambahan yang saya sedar sangat banyak di pasaran. Maka bermulalah misi pencarian produk terbaik yang patut saya beli, yang berbaloi dengan harganya, diproses dengan bahan semulajadi dan paling penting, HALAL. 

Alhamdulillah, Allah membuka pintu hati saya kepada sebuah produk yang setelah saya membuat penilaian dan saya dapati ia nya berbaloi, menggunakan bahan semulajadi dan halal. Pencarian berakhir dengan pertemuan saya dengan produk yang bernama SHAKLEE(Walaupun kakak saya memang pengguna shaklee awal lagi, tapi tak pernah pun saya ambil pusing) . Produk pertama yang saya beli adalah Energizing Soy Protein (ESP), minuman soya tulen tanpa kaedah GMO yang dengan izin Allah dapat memberi tenaga selain banyak lagi khasiatnya (Saya akan kongsikan di post yang lain, inshaallah). Setelah merasakan keberkesanannya dalam memberi tenaga(Dengan izin Allah) saya mula mahu mencuba produk yang lain, demi membekalkan nutrien yang cukup untuk bayi dalam kandungan. Saya cuba ostematrix (Untuk membekalkan kalsium, sb saya tak suka minum susu) dan omega3. Alhamdulillah, dengan izinNya, saya menjalani trimester demi trimester dengan jayanya, kaki tak pernah krem, sakit belakang berkurangan dan rasa bertenaga (Jangan tak percaya, saya berjalan kaki dari rumah ke ofis saya yang mengambil masa selama sepuluh minit dan menjadi 20 minit setelah kandungan berusia 8bulan). Selain amalkan diet seimbang, saya ambil supplemen kerana dengan ilmu saya yang sedikit ini, saya tahu, kebanyakan bahan mentah yang dimasak menjadi makanan telah kehilangan nutrien akibat pencemaran dan kerana telah melalui kaedah pengubahsuaian genetik (Genetic Modified Organism).

Pada 18.12.2012, semboyan perjuangan mengeluarkan penghuni rahim saya telah berbunyi dan mashaallah bayi saya mencecah 3.56kg dan saya dengan bantuan Allah melahirkannya secara normal selepas 30 minit berjuang. Rupanya saya tidak berjuang sendiriran kerana saya dapat rasakan yang bayi saya kuat menolak dirinya untuk keluar melalui pintu rahim, AllahuAkbar! Jika diikutkan kudrat saya yang lemah(Sebelum bersalin saya tidak makan kecuali sepotong roti) tidak mungkin saya dapat mengeluarkan bayi ini tapi saya tidak henti berdoa dalam hati: "Ya ALlah, yang dapat mengeluarkan bayi ini dari rahimku bukanlah diriku, tapi Engkau wahai Tuhan yang Maha Perkasa, bantu anakku untuk keluar melihat dunia,ya Allah bantulah aku seperti Engkau membantu Maryam yang meahirkan sendirian, permudahkan perjuangan ini ya Allah." Selama dua jam merasa sakit 'contraction' yang semakin kerap, tepat jam 5.40 pagi (Tepat waktu subuh di Kedah ketika itu), tangisan bidadri kecil yang kami namakan sebagai Maryam al-Haura' menyapa lembut gegendang telinga, terasa sirna segala sakit selama 2 jam itu, subhanallah :')

My baby shaklee on her First day, 18.12.2012 ^^

My baby Shaklee Today, 25.2.2013 ^^

Kemudian saya sedar, perjuangan tidak terhenti di situ, proses berpantang dan menyusu bayi sangat mencabar, kerana itu saya awal-awal lagi sudah membeli set berpantang dan penambah susu yang terdiri daripada ESP, ostematrix, Vit c, B complex dan alfalfa. Ummi dan kakak (sudah pun menjadi ibu susuan anak saya ^^) saya sangat banyak membantu terutama pada hari-hari awal berpantang. Ummi hampir-hampir memberikan bayi saya  susu formula kerana penghasilan susu yang sedikit dan ditambah bayi yang masih belajar beradaptasi dengan alam barunya dan keadaan saya yang masih lemah. Tetapi cepat-cepat saya tegah dan saya yakin, bahwa rezeki si kecil ini sudah Allah tulis dan saya tidak akan berputus asa. Alhamdulillah hari ke 4 berpantang, pengeluaran susu rezeki si kecil sudah berhasil dan selepas seminggu saya berhasil mengepam susu pada satu-satu sesi sebanyak 3 setengah oz kemudian makin bertambah, alhamdulillah cukup dan berlebihan untuk mengisi perut si kecil. Minggu ke tiga berpantang, apabila ada yang menziarah pasti akan cakap saya kelihatan bertenaga dan seperti sudah lepas pantang, malah ada yang cakap dah macam anak dara semula (Sengih >__<). Alhamdulillah, saya tak ambil apa-apa jamu atau herba, hanya makan diet seimbang dan nutrien tambahan daripada supplement shaklee yang dengan izin Allah memberi tenaga dan keperluan yang cukup kepada saya dan si bidadari kecil.

Dengan pengalaman bersama shaklee yang singkat tetapi membuahkan hasil yang meyakinkan (ya, dengan izin Allah), saya dengan itu mengambil keputusan untuk berkongsi kebaikan ini bersama orang lain, yang baik kita jangan simpan sendiri, berkongsi manfaat, semoga kebaikan sentiasa bersama kita dan sekarang saya sudah bergelar pengedar sah shaklee bernombor ID 928161. Jika anda berminat untuk merasai sendiri manfaat makanan kesihatan (sebenarnya produk shaklee lebih daripada hanya makanan tambahan ;) ini atas nama berusaha kerana Allah, jangan ragu-ragu untuk hubungi saya melalui:

Email: ababilzahra@gmail.com

SMS dan whatsapp: 0139944328

Inbox fb: http://www.facebook.com/fatimahzahrahasmara atau http://www.facebook.com/ababilzahra

Segala puji bagi Allah, segala yang berlaku hanya dengan izinNya. Semoga kita semua diberi kesihatan dan ditetapkan iman untuk sentiasa berada di jalan yang lurus, amin. Jom, dah asar :)

14 Things Successful People Do On Weekends

Bismillah,

Hujung minggu datang lagi! Hoyeaah semua bersuka ria dengan pelbagai aktibiti kecuali I sebab my hubby is working today, wuwuwu (T___T). But is ok, baby Haura' is here temankan dan hiburkan I, alhamdulillah and plus my hubby selalu cuti pada hari minggu di mana pasaraya lengan dan jalan tak jem sebab semua tengah kerja, siok tuu, ngeh3.. So, di pagi yang hening ni, I pun memulakan aktibiti menggodek  bahan bacaan then terjumpa lah article by Jacquelyn Smith, on 14 things successful people do on weekends atau apabila diterjemahkan kepada bahasa ibunda adalah 14 perkara yang orang-orang berjaya lakukan dihujung minggu. I copied it intentionally to my blog as a note for me and to share with you. There are good points  and very productive activites, so tanpa berlengah lagi, let's check it out :)

Here are 14 things successful people do (or should be doing) on weekends:

1. Make time for family and friends. This is especially important for those who don’t spend much time with their loved ones during the week.

2. Exercise. Everyone needs to do it, and if you can’t work out 4 to 5 days during the workweek, you need to be active on weekends to make up for some of that time.

3. Pursue a passion. “There’s a creative director of a greeting card company who went back to school to pursue an MFA because of her love of art,” Kurow says. “Pursuing this passion turned into a love of poetry that she now writes on weekends.”

“Successful people make time for what is important or fun,” Egan adds. “They make space for activities that add to their life balance.”

4. Vacation. Getting away for the weekend provides a great respite from the grind of an intense week at work, Cohen says.

5.  Disconnect. The most successful people avoid e-mail for a period of time, Vanderkam says. “I’m not saying the whole weekend, but even just a walk without the phone can feel liberating. I advocate taking a ‘tech Sabbath.’ If you don’t have a specific religious obligation of no-work time, taking Saturday night to mid-day Sunday off is a nice, ecumenical time that works for many people.”

6. Volunteer. “I know a commercial real estate broker who volunteers to help with cook-off events whose proceeds are donated to the Food Bank,” Kurow says. “The volunteer work provides a balance to the heavy analytical work she does all week and fulfills her need to be creative — she designs the promotional material for the non-profit.”

Cohen says a lot of successful people participate in fundraising events. “This is a great way to network and to meet others with similar interests,” he says. “The visibility also helps in branding a successful person as philanthropic.”

7. Avoid chores. Every weekend has a few have-to-dos, but you want these to take the minimum amount of time possible, Vanderkam explains. Create a small window for chores and errands, and then banish them from your mind the rest of the time.

8. Plan. “Planning makes people more effective, and doing it before the week starts means you can hit Monday ready to go, and means you’ll give clear directions to the people who work for you, so they will be ready to go, too,” Vanderkam says. Trunk agrees. She says successful people plan their month and year because “if you get stuck on short-term lists you don’t get anything big accomplished.”

9. Socialize. Go out with friends and family, or get involved in the local community.

“It has been demonstrated that successful people find great satisfaction in giving back,” Cohen says. “Board membership, for example, also offers access to other successful folks.”

10. Gardening/crafts/games/sports/cooking/cultural activities. This is especially important for those cooped up in an office all week.

“For the pure joy, some folks find great satisfaction in creating beautiful gardens,” Cohen says.

Kurow knows an attorney who uses her weekends to garden and do mosaics and tile work to satisfy her creative side. “Filling her life this way enables her to be refreshed on Monday and ready to tackle the litigation and trial prep work. Artwork for her is fulfilling in a way that feeds her soul and her need to connect with her spiritual side.”

Bridge lessons and groups can also sharpen the mind and often create relationships among highly competitive smart professionals, Cohen says. “I once saw a printout of a bridge club’s membership list; its members were a who’s who of Wall Street.”

Theatre, opera and sporting events can also enrich one’s spirit, he adds.

11. Network. “Networking isn’t an event for a successful person, it’s a lifestyle,” Trunk says. Wherever they go and whatever they do, they manage to connect with new people.

12. Reflect. Egan says truly successful people make time on weekends to appreciate what they have and reflect on their happiness and accomplishments. As Rascoff said, “weekends are a great chance to reflect and be more introspective about bigger issues.”

13. Meditate (Pray for muslims). Classes and private instruction offer a bespoke approach to insight and peace of mind, Cohen says. “How better to equip yourself for success in this very tough world?”

14. Recharge. We live in a competitive world, Vanderkam says. “Peak performance requires managing downtime, too–with the goal of really recharging your batteries.” That’s how the most successful people get so much done.

Successful people know that time is too precious to be totally leisurely about leisure, Vanderkam concludes. “You’re not going to waste that time by failing to think about what you’d like to do with it, and thus losing the weekend to TV, puttering, inefficient e-mail checking, and chores. If you don’t have a busy workweek, your weekend doesn’t matter so much. But if you’re going from 8 a.m. to 8 p.m. every day, it certainly does.”

As for surirumah (Ye ke?) like me, hari-hari adalah cuti, sooo heaven but that also means that everyday is a working day for me, amikaw! All those activities I can do on weekdays except activities that need transportation, haisy..  Inshaallah kalau ikhlas banyak pahala, selalu betulkan niat dan ingatkan diri bahawa surirumah sebenarnya tunjang dan tulang belakang kepada ummah, hoyeaaahh! Caiyok3! All the best to semua surirumah muda dan comel like me di luar sana! :)

Sindrom sayang anak

Assalamualaykum..

Sindrom sayang anak? Sindrom ini biasanya akan menyerang umat manusia yang baharu bergelar ibu dan bapa, hohoho. Well, actually that is not my main point here. The title is actually combination of "Sayang anak timang-timangkan" dan "Shaken Baby Syndrome". So I combine jadi la Sindrom sayang anak., bijak kan? Jimat pun jimat, jimat space dan tenaga (APAKAH???). Ok back top the topic, Shaken Baby Syndrome atau nama glam nya SBS. As a new parents, especially at the very early days, the sounds of our baby's crying will freak us out, REALLY. Terutama baby yang vokal tinggi like my daughter, time dia tarik vokal semua orang memandang, jiran di tingkat bawah sekali pun boleh dengar, kucing terpinga-pinga memandang ke sana sini. Disebabkan itu, cepat-cepat je nak bagi dia tenang sampai kadang-kadang tergoncang bayi yang suci tak bersalah itu, when I recall those days I really regret it and I will cepat-cepat minta maaf kat my baby and kiss her bertubi-tubi tanda menyesal sebab kurang sabar masa tu. Bila jumpa artikel berkenaan SBS ni, rasa bersalah tu makin membuak-buak tak dapat bendung, huhu. Forgive me my Lord, forgive me my child, for being impatient  :(

So what is SBS actually?

Shaken baby syndrome is a severe form of child abuse caused by violently shaking an infant or child. Shaken baby syndrome can occur from as little as 5 seconds of shaking. Shaken baby injuries usually occur in children younger than 2 years old but may be seen in children up to the age of 5. When an infant or toddler is shaken, the brain bounces back and forth against the skull. This can cause bruising of the brain (cerebral contusion), swelling, pressure, and bleeding in the brain. The large veins along the outside of the brain may tear, leading to further bleeding, swelling, and increased pressure. This can easily cause permanent brain damage or death. Shaking an infant or small child may cause other injuries, such as damage to the neck, spine, and eyes.

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"SBS merupakan kecederaan otak bayi disebabkan goncangan atau pergerakan kepala yang kuat. Boleh berlaku dalam tempoh sesingkat 5 saat pergerakan yang kuat. Kecederaan yang serius boleh menyebabkan kecacatan otak yang lama, serius dan kekal pada bayi. Ianya berlaku apabila kepala bayi digoncang atau dihentak dengan objek walaupun objek lembut seperti bantal. Ada teori mengaitkan dengan pergerakan seperti menimang bayi, menaiki buaian serta memegang bayi ketika seseorang sedang marah atau bergaduh boleh menyebab berlakunya SBS. Sebab lain ialah penderaan bayi (child abuse) dan selalunya mempunyai kesan-kesan penderaan yang lain.

Perkara ini berlaku kerana kepala bayi mempunyai nisbah yang lebih besar berbanding badan mereka, leher yang lemah dan struktur otak yang masih belum matang serta lebih kandungan air berbanding orang dewasa.

Amalan menimang atau menggoncang sering dilakukan oleh penjaga terutama bila bayi tidak mahu berhenti menangis. Ada yang menimang bayi kerana untuk menenangkan bayi dan ada juga melakukannya ketika marah atau penat menjaga bayi.

Ini bukanlah kes SBS pertama yang saya rawat. Sebelum ini saya juga pernah merawat seorang bayi di wad kanak-kanak yang mempunyai kecederaan otak yang serius dikhuatiri berpunca daripada menaiki buaian

Maka, saya sangat berharap agar ibu bapa dan penjaga semua dapat mengambil serius dan peka tentang Baby Shaken Syndrome ini. Ianya bukanlah kes terpencil malah di Amerika Syarikat sebanyak 1500 kes dilaporkan setiap tahun. Mereka juga telah mengharamkan sebarang bentuk alat menggoncang bayi seperti buaian.."

So what is the PREVENTION of this syndrome?

  

>Do not shake your baby when you are angry or to play. 

>Do not hold your baby when you are angry. 

>If you can not calm your baby, leave your baby for a while in the crib or to others. 

>Ask for help from others.

>Cradle should be our last choice to make our baby sleep (Crying T_T)

Yang prevention last sekali tu agak sukar sekali coz my baby tidur siang dalam buai but not all the time :'( . I will try my best to minimize using the cradle, inshaallah. You all boleh tengok secara 3D tanpa perlu pakai cermin mata 3D, macam mana gejala SBS ni berlaku dalam badan bayi kita di youtube. Ngeri siot, sumpah tak goncang dah my baby even dia menangis on top of her lungs! Taubat!

When you've become a parent

Bismillah..Assalamualaykum..Hey, I'm back! :D

I'm having a long holiday huh?! Well, yes and I enjoy it, trust me :)

So what happened in back 2 months? Ahhaaa jeng3 *Drum rolls*

Taraaaaa....

Assalamualaykum..my name is Maryam al-haura' :)

Yes, my baby! :)

Alhamdulillah everything went well with His perfect plan, I couldn't say more. My baby is healthy and perfect, alhamdulillah. All experience I gained along the journey, all the struggles and pains, I believe will benefits me much not only in dunya but also in akhirah. So at the moment my mother left my home, the journey of parenting started. It is true that it is never easy to be a parent, the first time baby Haura' cried on top of her lungs, freak my hubby and me out. Phewww of course she stopped cried when she was tired and then fell asleep like nothing ever happened! Oh my Lord, really it was a priceless moment! And we laugh whenever we recall that moment, lol.The first time when it was only me and baby Haura' after my hubby left to his workplace, I remind myself to be positive, she's only a baby, her only way to communicate is crying so it is normal and I have to be calm, don't panic dude!

Now she's almost 2 months, she's getting smarter (She can stays put and watches we while I am praying beside her even when I pray with my hubby, she starts babbling, smile and laugh a bit) and with all my heart I would say, she's the most cute creature on earth, mashaallah, well at least on my sight ;). Well there's a lot of interesting thing change once you have a baby:

♥ You don't need a daily schedule anymore because your baby will fix your daily schedule. Well, it is depend on her to start the day in any time even at 3 am in the morning! As for me, I will automatically awake in every 2 hours to feed her.

♥ You will respect and love your own parents in a brand new way especially your mother after you have went through what she had. 

♥ If  the baby is sick, you will feel more severe than if you are sick. 

♥ You will appreciate ourselves, yes because you are now a parent to a child.

♥ You become more sensitive on whatever issues related with a baby like when you saw a news on child abuse, you can even cry :'(

♥ You will no longer feel disgust with our baby poo poo otherwise we are so happy! lol

♥ You will feel like an angel whenever you can make the baby stop crying

♥ You will always count your baby's new teeth 

♥ You will no longer eager to snap your picture, you will instead taking your baby's picture daily! This is also applies to your photos uploading activity where you will upload your baby's picture more than yours in fb :P 

♥ You would think that having more children is not a huge problem. 

♥ When you see there are other parents who were holding their baby that was crying, you will understand their situation. 

♥ You will cherish your bath time even it is in a short period!

♥ Finally, you start to say 'hello' to the neighbor after having a baby! 

♥ You will find out, the things that once you consider important are no longer important after you have a child. 

♥ You are aware that it is not difficult to love your children who at first you thought he was a stranger. 

♥ Every day is full of surprises!

Interesting isn't it? :D

I believe she will grows smarter and prettier than me (Of course, I'm getting old, no?) and most important is she becomes a piety servant of Allah like Maryam Ali Imran, amin. I aware that me first have to be a piety servant of Allah, inshaallah. Yes, it is a long journey but with Allah's helps inshaallah we can make it, plus both side cooperation of husband and wife. Alhamdulillah for He gave me a very supportive and cooperative plus handsome (enhem) husband. Baby Haura' is indeed the most precious gift for our first anniversary awww :)

Alhamdulillah for everything, thank you for all du'a from whoever I ever met or even never meet. Please keep me in your du'a :)

With  ♥

Zahra

Smile :)

“Let not the people come to know except of your happiness, and let them not see except your smile.

If life becomes constricted upon you, then within the Qur’an is your orchard.

If you feel curtailed and restricted, then to the heavens raise your call.

And if they ask you of your affairs, then praise Allah and smile.

If you see an ant on the path, then do not crush it, and seek the Face of Allah thereby, so that He will have mercy on you like you had mercy on it, and remember that it glorifies Allah, so do not halt this glorification by killing it.

And if you pass by a bird drinking from the blessing of water, then do not pass close to it in case you startle it, and seek the Face of Allah thereby, so that He grants you safety on the Day when hearts shall reach the throat.

And if you come across a cat in the middle of the road, then avoid hitting it, and seek the Face of Allah thereby, so that He protects you from an evil death.

And if you want to throw out food, then make it your intention that animals can eat from it and seek the Face of Allah thereby, so that He provides you from whence you do not expect.

Do good, no matter how small it seems to you, because you do not know which good deed will enter you into Paradise.

And if you wish to spread this, then intend good, so that Allah may relieve you of a trial from the trials of this world and the Hereafter.”

~ Shaykh Abu Ishaq Al-Huwayni~

WITH ♥
-Sist Zahra